Well this fortnight’s article is gonna be about a highly relatable and also about the most debatable phase that everyone goes through. As the title would have it,Let’s relate to the top 10 things that life forcefully,spontaneously and even invisibly imposes on everyone after their 20’s.

What is anything without a change? YEAH everything is subjected to change.But how well we acknowledge it and draw a pattern with it with all and one around us gives us a subtle yet a satisfying understanding over it.Now words short and let’s dot out those 10 remarkable 20 plus age changes.

HUSTLE

Even a potato will go wild after it’s 20’s and the whole thing about people in this is – Well they go all full of activities and bustling.Strong need for uniqueness and recognition makes all to hustle in something.People start discovering their real passion and dreams through this ‘Hustle’ phase.Even the most dumbest and densest of us would start removing those layers to work on something.Going a little rough and tough though,here and there.

DATE

Why this date thing and that too as the second one? Many start looking for partners well if not before 20 ,at least now after it.There is gonna be a whole range of mixed acceptance and debate over this but it cannot be ruled out of the list for sure.For anyone who is hustling hard ,dating or having a good partner is not just an escapade but also a way to get their emotional and agely needs of love and attention.

“Wine comes in at the mouth and love comes in at the eye; That’s all we shall know for truth.Before we grow old and die”

William Butler Yeats

BREAK HEART

Many would swear that they hadn’t broken anyone’s heart so far.But at least once they themselves would have had their’s broken if not of the others’. Apparently Millennials don’t stand a chance with the previous generations in retaining love or partners.Many a times we all do find it hard to work on this. Love after love,life seems unsettling to few or their hearts with any permanent stitch.

MOVE

With the second and third of the list being juicy and cheesy things,now comes the real deal of things.Home town is the love of love for all of us indeed.But sadly the best university or your dream company never exists in exact home town of yours.What do we do now? Let’s pack the stuff up and move endlessly with our dreams being our maps and our goals being the destination.

FAKE

I got a broken knee when I was seven years old , I cried. I got a broken heart at 23,Now I am working round the clock.Broken heart doesn’t imply to being left out in love, maybe it subjects to anything that used to be close to your heart and now isn’t or couldn’t.As we grow,we learn to fake our emotions without actually demanding a real-must exhaust.All we do is fake the best and live the days.

WORK

Time to change assignments and grades into deadlines and pays. While we do the same, yet we make the money. Put the ‘dream-job’,’Work-I-Love’ phrases down,We all do start working after 20’s no matter we like the job or not. Sit at home idle with hot served food at your table three times a day,Even your pet gets more respect and attention than you there.For an adult,working simply isn’t earning bread it is also earning the so-called respect you deserve. Don’t whine now,keep working as this is a MUST.

EARN

Money can never be bad as much as this is known,it is a must in this life.People earn even when they are students,earn with work,earn with freelance and what more ,with everything after 20,You are gonna look only for money.The chase is real and you would embrace this race even without realizing it.

SAVE

We all would have had enough advice in getting the money saved.It happens all the way from piggy banks to personal saving accounts.Late 20s starts a fear that all would start saving without even someone asking us to.The market is a swing ,back or forth how it goes,in the play you need a hold and that is SAVING.Even to make a dream wedding or dream house possible,saving is all that we need in long run.

RISK

“The reward is in the risk”

Rachel Conn ,Dash & Lily Book of Dares

Don’t ask me why did I plunge into a grave well now with RISK.At times we all do it.Do it more after 20s. Risking partners,investments,jobs what not even health.People after 20 go nuts a bit before getting enlightened and learning to play it safe. Short of experiance or wisdom or whatever it is,We risk many a things without even knowing it.But the biggest twist always comes with the biggest decision or in other words THE RISK.

CHANGE

Aren’t all the above ones a change of one kind or other? Well what will it feel to become a completely changed person after your twenties? Doesn’t that require a separate place in this list? That’s way. Going back to the naive days nothing can be more evident with this life after 20’s without a prominent change.Whether we change for good or bad is not a thing .But certainly there is going to be a unquestionable huge CHANGE coming to you with this age.

Out of ten,Hope at least five has happened to you or is happening.

Happy changing and growing.Stay tuned for more updates in coming months!

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